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Heating Up With Mother
There are lock boxes to cover and protect thermostats from fickle fingers and prying hands.
By: Daniel LaFrance on August 21, 2015
I don't know how I would survive without AC (well, I'm sure *I* would survive, but I'm not sure my husband would - ha!).
By: The Bug on August 21, 2015
98 at night? That doesn't sound like heaven to me!
By: The Broad on August 21, 2015
We didn't have air conditioning when I was a kid, so I spent many a miserable night trying to sleep in hot muggy Baltimore. Now, the older I get, the more I realize I have become an unadulterated AC baby. I don't think I could survive here in Georgia without it. OK, so maybe I COULD survive, but thank God we have it.
By: Susan Swiderski on August 21, 2015
my thermostat stays on 81 thru the dreaded texas summer (the house is a big open gazebo) and 60 during winter. your mom is a trip.
By: TexWisGirl on August 21, 2015
oh my- I hate AC- it's noisy and actually can make me sick. Not sure why, but when we travel and "the man" turns it on I usually get some sort of sinus infection- fortunately for both of us we don't need AC where we live because we live at 3500'and it cools off enough at night. Plus we have ceiling fans- and they keep the air circulating nicely. You are a patient son and your mom is very lucky! Cheers!
By: Kathe W. on August 21, 2015
My great grandmother is the same age as your mom (I'll keep typing before anybody has a chance to think about that one), and she does the same thing. She lived during the Depression, but it's been many, many years since she's been destitute. I once heard her say she was glad she hadn't bought a certain vegetable the week before because she could find it 7 cents a pound cheaper this week. Generational? Maybe.
By: Katy Anders on August 21, 2015
my mother was nothing but a list of complaints. one of the last times I went to visit her before she died (she had moved to Woodinville WA to live with the son who promptly put her in a family home where she got excellent care by the way) , she was rather pleasant, not a single complaint dripped from her lips. I was beginning to worry she was about to drop dead but then halfway through the day she remembered herself and it was nothing but complaints the rest the day.
By: Ellen Abbott on August 21, 2015
If I ever become like Ellen's mom, my family has my written permission to have me put to sleep!!
By: fishducky on August 21, 2015
My mother complains about her back pain every time I talk to her, which is daily, yet refuses to see a doctor about it. This has gone on for more than 30 years. Now I just ignore her.
By: LL Cool Joe on August 21, 2015
I know your mother very well even though I've never met her.
By: cranky on August 21, 2015
Think I'd check into one of those lock boxes Daniel mentioned and set it around 80. With fans, she should be comfortable. Heat is not an old person's friend and can bring on stroke but with poor circulation older folks are often colder than we are and don't feel the heat. You are in a tough spot Stephen.
By: Akansas Patti on August 21, 2015
I never want to be one of those stubborn people set in their ways unless I do not complain to other about it. She is lucky she has not passed out in this hot weather.
By: Tabor on August 21, 2015
I will gladly do without almost every other modern convenience if it means I can keep my air conditioning. Your mom and I are poles apart on this one. LONG LIVE A/C! :)
By: Scott Park on August 21, 2015
That reminds me so much of my mom, dabbing away her sweat with a paper towel in summer, and wearing two sets of flannel pajamas and a robe in winter, while declaring her thermostat was set just right at 84 and 60, respectively.
By: Val on August 21, 2015
Sometimes we can't get what the other guy thinks...it's irrational and that doesn't make sense to us rational people.
By: red on August 21, 2015
Reminds me of the Seinfeld episode when Jerry and Elaine visit his parents in Florida...
By: Pixel Peeper on August 21, 2015
Oh gosh with me being menopausal and all, I would DIE without my a/c. I live in south Florida and we are burning up down here. The stories about your mom alway crack me up. Your ending to this piece is so clever!
By: marcia @ Menopausal Mother on August 21, 2015
Your mom is the opposite of my wife. If the lovely Mrs. Shife had her way the AC would be set at 60 all summer long. Best of luck with the AC battle and hopefully you will get a break from the heat since we are heading towards the end of summer.
By: Mr. Shife on August 21, 2015
I appreciate my AC, and I love Dean, the AC/heating repair man. I remember as a child we had one window unit to try to cool our entire house. It was rather uncomfortable, but better than nothing. Love, Janie
By: Janie Junebug on August 21, 2015
Ha, ha, I can just picture you and your Mom. Look at all the patience you have had to learn over the years................ :)
By: John on August 22, 2015
My mom, born in '31, raised frugality to an art form. Now that I'm older I find myself getting frugal too. But I know what your mom means - I'm in the A/C and still uncomfortable. Cold air's hitting my front; my back is sweating against the seat. I hate summer...
By: Lexa Cain on August 22, 2015
My mother- in- law's face would be beet red and dripping sweat and she would say, "I'm not hot." Her single wide mobile home had no windows open. She had no fan on. When she opened the door, we would be hit with a blast of hot air, so we refused to go in. She would turn it on just for us. I imagine she turned it off when we left!
By: Linda on August 22, 2015
It is truly okay that you ignore the complaints of a person who can do something to change the situation and won't. My suggestion would be to get a dummy switch and have the real thermostat control moved elsewhere so your mother can still fiddle with the dummy switch and not actually change it.
By: messymimi on August 22, 2015
Don't feel bad. We argue about the temperature here too, both inside and out.
By: Catalyst on August 23, 2015
Yes, mister, you're dancin' with the devil:)
By: Rick Watson on August 23, 2015
One of my late work out buddies kept his home at 65 degrees all year long. He was the oldest guy at the gym--80. But he could afford the bills and didn't care. He used a comforter and claimed to sleep better! ;)
By: Michael Manning on August 23, 2015
This is too funny. Before my mom got dementia, she would always have a window open. My hubby and I would tell her to close the window since we have the air on (she lived in the upstairs part of our home) but she claimed the window didn't affect the a/c. She would then ask us to lower the ac since she was too hot. I told her that the open window will affect the coolness of the place but she would argue the point. This is when she was perfectly well. She grew up with windows open. She designed the home addition and knew how to build homes but this? Nope common sense right out the window. Would drive me batty
By: Birgit on August 24, 2015
Excellent post! I feel as if I've known your mother for decades.
By: Bryan Jones on August 27, 2015
I'm afraid to ask my mother "how are you" when I call her because the rants then begin! I know what you mean!
By: Bouncin Barb on September 7, 2015
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